I don't normally do chain-letter type things, but
a) it was sweet of blossom to think of me (thank you!),So here goes.
b) I just got back from vacation and I'm bored,
c) I like that the Liebster Award shares the same first letter as Lesbian.
It seems there are multiple versions of this "award" going around, but the one blossom is following instructs me to:
a) nominate eleven blogs with under 200 followers (I honestly don't know how you'd determine that, so I'm just gonna take a stab at it by choosing from the "smallish personal blog" category in my Feedly list)My Nominees in Alphabetical Order are.... (drumroll) ...
b) notify said bloggers they've been nominated (hey bloggers! thanks for existing!)
c) provide answers to the eleven questions blossom posed in her own Liebster post, and
d) ask eleven questions of my own nominees, to answer if they so choose, along with posting their own eleven nominees (excluding the blogger who nominated you).
- The Dirty Normal
- Eat the Damn Cake
- Fannie's Room
- First the Egg
- I'm Unschooled. Yes, I Can Write
- The Lesbrary
- New Porn By Women
- Radical Doula
- The Thang Blog
- Undercover in the Suburbs
- Walk the Ridgepole
- What comforts you most when you’re sad? Touch, particularly from my wife (doesn't have to be sexual). And reading familiar books.
- What would you do on a dream day where money and travel time were no object? Enjoy leisurely meals in the good company of friends and family (who are scattered across the continent), go walking in Cumbria in ideal weather, read intellectually engaging things in books, and enjoy unhurried sexytimes with my wife.
- Favorite drink (with or without alcohol)? Summer: Elderflower gin & tonic, Winter: Goat's milk hot cocoa made with belgian chocolate.
- What character trait (of yours) do you most struggle to accept about yourself? The fact that physical activity and exercise are not second nature to me.
- How much water do you drink in a day? Typically not as much as I should.
- If you’re a parent, what has surprised you the most about the gig? If you’re not, what do you like best about not having kids (right now or at all)? I feel uncomfortable framing non-parenting in terms of what's "best" about that aspect of our family life. In part, we're non-parents because we can't picture having enough hours in the day (around work) or emotional resources to parent adequately. So I guess I'd say, "it's good having enough sleep and down-time that we can function"? But I'd rather say that what's surprised me about non-parenting is that I'm okay with it. Growing up, I assumed I would be a mother. Life hasn't turned out that way, and it's surprising me that I'm as comfortable with that as I am.
- What (if anything) makes you feel insecure about either being a parent or not being a parent? Insecurity may not be the right term...but I worry about how to maintain cross-generational connections in the absence of parenting, as that is the clearest model I know.
threefour television shows of all time? Firefly. Mr. Rogers. Torchwood. The West Wing.
- Specialty dish (or baked indulgence)? Something you’ve made time and again. Moosewood brownies.
- Favorite thing about the person you’ve grown into? That I can always find something to be interested in and ask questions about.
- One simple, happy memory. Stepping off the plane in Redmond, Oregon, en route to visiting my grandparents and smelling the scent of juniper and lava rock dust.
My questions for the Leibster nominees ... (should they choose to answer them) ...
- First library?
- A favorite childhood book or movie you're now a bit cringe-y about having adored?
- Earliest memory of the internet?
- Food you disliked in childhood but appreciate now (and why)?
- Books currently on your nightstand/active reading pile?
- A might-have-been from your twenties (job not taken, relationship not pursued, trip aborted) that you find yourself wondering about?
- Favored toothpaste, toothbrush?
- Have you ever burned/shredded/junked a piece of personal history you now regret destroying (if so, what and why)?
- Have you ever burned/shredded/junked a piece of personal history you have no regrets about (if so, what and why)?
- A strong childhood memory of world events?
- A project you hope to finish some day (but has currently fallen by the wayside)?
If you (the nominees) choose to spread the liebster love, now or at some later date, please link the post you create back here in comments so others can enjoy!
Again, thank you all for thinking and writing and sharing.