tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8743841912028246535.post6669620472730011979..comments2023-10-10T06:48:40.299-03:00Comments on the feminist librarian: 'the act of marriage': ch. 4 and 5 (how to do it 101)annajcookhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17573723390785613915noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8743841912028246535.post-67536386021813063122012-05-10T14:54:37.701-03:002012-05-10T14:54:37.701-03:00@Molly I know, right?! They'll go on for parag...@Molly I <i>know</i>, right?! They'll go on for paragraphs and paragraphs about how flexibility is key, and not to be anxious about meeting external expectations yadda yadda and then they slap this HUGE expectation on their newly-weds that, like, it's totally cool to experiment for a few weeks and all, but eventually SOON you'll be having simultaneous orgasms all the time.<br /><br />And thanks for backing up my hunch on the male bodies/male persons. Hanna and I were talking about it last night, and about all the really good porn we've read in which guys get each other off sequentially, or there's really good post-orgasm candoodling. So I can't help but feel this emphasis on dude ejaculates = lovemaking OVER comes from either a) a very personal place for the LaHayes (I don't even want to know!) or b) from a very specific historical-cultural context (also kinda creepy). More thoughts on this in the next installment!annajcookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17573723390785613915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8743841912028246535.post-70005150793359275662012-05-10T14:07:52.935-03:002012-05-10T14:07:52.935-03:00"several WEEKS [...] before they can experien..."several WEEKS [...] before they can experience simultaneous orgasms on a REGULAR BASIS?": These people have GOALS! They frighten me. Oh, and this is supposed to be achievable in a matter of weeks by people who have never touched each other, anyone else, or even themselves ... ever. I mean, setting aside the fact that the goal itself is kinda weird, that's intense!<br /><br />W/r/t your final note: no, male bodies do not really operate that differently from female bodies. Not any male bodies with which I choose to canoodle, anyway.Mollyhttp://www.firsttheegg.comnoreply@blogger.com